Sexy Is An Attitude, But Sexy Panties Help-Mominatrix Lead-In

I'm addicted to panties. Not as in I can't go commando, but I love buying underwear. I'm not picky about the material either: cotton, satin, silk or lace. I get excited when Victoria's Secret has their semi-annual sale. I love the bargain undies bin at Frederick's of Hollywood. Heck, I've even sewn my own.

I even like the word panties. Not underwear, not undergarments, but panties. Sure, I'm guilty of throwing on the mom uniform of t-shirt and jeans, but I like having a cute pair of panties under them. Why? They make me feel womanly, sexy even. When you're a mom of two small children, it's hard to get your mojo on at the end of a long day of spit-up, dirty diapers, and a whining preschooler. After reading Kristen Chase's The Mominatrix's Guide to Sex: A No-Surrender Advice Book for Naughty Mom, I second her belief. Dressing the part helps bring the sexy back. (Cue some Justin Timberlake).

Sure sexy lingerie can be fun. I love waring a silk negligee or red satin nightgown. Neither of these are good options for me since A) I'm breastfeeding a 3 month old and B) my 4 year old still climbs into our bed in the middle of the night. Nothing says sexy like leaking breast milk all over that beautiful silk or your daughter asking why your ass is hanging out of your nightgown.

How about matching your bra and panties? That definitely takes more effort than I can muster. I'm just happy to have clean bras and panties. Currently my clothes live in two piles: dirty and clean. Why fold clothes when you can sleep? 

So I stick to buying cute, sexy panties. I love them all: bikinis, boy shorts, cheekies, hip huggers. Ok, I lied. All except for granny panties and thongs. Thongs are definitely a love 'em or hate 'em. I hate 'em. And granny panties? Not sexy. They might be comfortable, but they are not conducive to sexy vibes. Throw them out, ok? You'll be glad you did.

The fun thing about wearing so super hot, sexy panties under your jeans or even your business suit is that no one knows your secret but you. You know you are S.E.X.Y. underneath. You start walking a bit taller. There might be a bit more sashaying. Before you know it, you're walking around with a smile as big as the Cheshire cat.

People might not know why you're grinning all day or why you exude such confidence and sexiness. But they notice you. THAT is your sexy attitude showing through. So if you're having a bad morning, put on a pair of hot panties--it'll turn your day around.

Believe me, your significant other is going to notice your sexy mojo. When you finally take off those jeans and t-shirt at the end of the day, he might even make a move. You probably won't mind it either.

An original DC Metro Moms post.

Thien-Kim usually dispenses her sexy mojo advice at her Passion Parties, but you can check out her suggestions for Parent Friendly Sex Toys at Laugh in Bed as well as her attempts to follow Dr. Oz's 90 Day Sex Challenge. She also blogs about food and crafts at Cup of Creativi-Tea and parenting at I'm Not the Nanny.

I received a copy of this book as part of the SV Moms Book Club.